Jesus’ Powerful Stand Against Back-to-Sender Prayers

Unknown to many Christians, Jesus banned back-to-sender prayers, which are common in some Pentecostal churches. This article will cover the meaning of such prayers, their implications, why Jesus banned them, and the best way to pray.

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Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:
But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. (Matthew 5:38-39 KJV)

Many Christians, especially Pentecostals, pray back-to-sender prayers, but in the scripture above, Jesus banned such prayers.

What is a Back-to-Sender Prayer?

It can be defined as the act of retaliation or returning any evil sent or done to a person to the sender or originator. In layperson’s language, it refers to a prayer that returns evil to the originator or sender.

The Implication of Back-to-Sender Prayer

Back-to-sender prayer is a vengeful and retaliative
prayer. It is a blatant display of unforgiveness —
a total rejection of forgiveness. Although it sounds logical for a person to pray for evil to happen to someone who did evil against them, it’s not God’s will. Notably, God wants us to forgive everyone who offends us. If you genuinely forgive anyone, you wouldn’t want the same measure of evil the person did to return to them.

When a person returns any evil done against them to the originator, they become as guilty as the originator. For example, if Peter burns John’s car, the Police will arrest and prosecute him. However, suppose Peter burns John’s car, and John burns Peter’s car in retaliation. In that case, the Police will also arrest John and prosecute him.

Since John retaliated with the same evil, he is as guilty as Peter. Similarly, when one returns the same measure of evil to the originator, one becomes as guilty as the originator. One can only avoid becoming as guilty as the originator by entirely forgiving.

Anyone who prays to return evil to its originator lacks forgiveness and, as such, won’t receive forgiveness of sins from God. For one’s sins to be forgiven, one must forgive others. Since those who pray to return evil to its originator do so because they lack forgiveness, God doesn’t forgive their sins. And anyone whose sins are not forgiven is not a Christian.

Why Jesus Banned Back-to-Sender Prayer

Before Jesus’s coming, returning evil for evil was okay, but that changed when He sacrificed His life for us on the Cross of Calvary. Before He came, people received punishment for their sins: the soul that sins shall die (Ezekiel 18:20-21.) But when Jesus came, He changed the procedure by sacrificing Himself for our sins. Instead of us dying because of our sins, Jesus died on our behalf and washed away our sins.

After changing the procedure for forgiveness, forgiving others became a condition we must meet before God forgives us. That explains why Jesus changed the evil for evil prayer in today’s scripture.

In today’s Bible passage, Jesus says we should not practise an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. He also states that we should not resist evil. Instead, if someone slaps us on the right cheek, we should also turn the other cheek to slap.

An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, which connote revengeful prayer, was part of Moses’s law. But in today’s passage, Jesus said we should stop it, meaning He does not want us to take revenge or return evil for evil. He wants us to forgive.

Remarkably, a Christian means a follower of Christ and not a follower of Moses. So, as Christians, we must follow Christ’s teachings and not Moses’s law. Anyone who doesn’t follow Christ’s principles is not a Christian.

The Best Way To Pray

Instead of praying back-to-sender prayers, pray for your enemies (Matthew 5:43-45). When you do so, God will take over the battle from you and fight on your behalf (Romans 12:19). When God fights on your behalf, the evil sent or done against you won’t affect you. Besides, the person may repent and become a true Christian, which is what God wants. If they refuse to repent and continue fighting you, God takes over the battle from you and deals with them thoroughly. And most importantly, you will receive your desired miracles effortlessly.

FURTHER STUDY
Matthew 5:43-45

PRAYER POINT
Dear Father, forgive me for any evil prayer I have ever prayed in Jesus’ name.

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5 Comments
  • Jide Akomolafe
    August 21, 2024

    Another awesome revelation. Thank you so much for sharing sir.

  • Edith
    August 21, 2024

    When I forgive, God takes over the battle from me and deals with them thoroughly. And most importantly I receive my desired miracle effortlessly.

    • Ukwuoma
      August 21, 2024

      I even read somewhere that back to sender is a witchcraft terminology. I don’t know how far that is true.

  • Lilian Osibemhe
    August 21, 2024

    I receive grace to always forgive and let God fight my battle for me. Thank you Pastor for sharing. God bless you

  • Patricia Wagner
    August 22, 2024

    WOW! What a powerful article! 👏👏👏 So here is the big testimony, just before I discovered Singles & Married, after being invited by one of my friends to attend the marriage school in October 2020, I completed a fast titled, ‘It ends here and now’, that is the hashtag I was using during that fast. I had received that revelation from the Holy Spirit. I finished the fast, then my friend invited me to attend the marriage school. The moment I watched the video she shared with me about the marriage school, I noticed that Pastor Chris is unlike people and pastors of Nigerian heritage I had encountered. He wasn’t behaving like them at all. I said to myself, he kept his Nigerian accent, but he doesn’t behave like the others I have met or seen on TV. He is different on the inside, which is reflected on the outside. I had never met someone like him before. I felt connected to what he was doing. I decided to enrol in the marriage school.

    Imagine what was going on within my spirit when I started hearing him share that there is no such thing as dangerous midnight prayers, and we don’t send arrows back to senders and pray back to sender prayers. It was a very big ‘What?’ moment! 😮 I thought about the fast I had just completed and said to myself, “So this is what God wanted to end here and now so he can bless me further and do something new in my life!” The fast certainly worked, my prayers had been answered and God was simply showing me what to change. I was amazed. God has never failed me, indeed. I was praying those prayers after going through some things, which prompted me to research and find those prayers on Google. I shared those prayers with some of my friends, too. 😮 I didn’t need to be told twice, I received that message as God’s truth as soon as I heard it during the marriage school, that we ought not to pray in this manner.

    I had a Facebook ministry page with about 37,000 followers, and my Facebook charity initiative page had around 10,000 followers. Because I had shared such prayers on my Facebook ministry page and some other wrong Christian doctrines I received in some churches I attended, there were too many posts to delete, I had had that page for about 6 years, I had paid for Facebook ads, that’s how I gained so many followers. I thought about hiring someone to delete all the wrong posts, so I keep my pages and followers, but I needed money to pay someone to do all that work which I didn’t have at hand and the matter required urgency. It became clear that I needed to sever ties with those prayers and erroneous doctrines immediately. I decided to delete my Facebook pages and account and lose all my followers, and regain them on a clean platform, I could find them again by using Facebook Ads. It was the right thing to do before God. I am happy I obeyed his voice, I wouldn’t have done it otherwise. I was out for good and forever. My question to you today after you read this post is, are you out for good and forever? I yearned for a fresh start focused solely on teaching the correct Christian doctrines on my platforms.

    It doesn’t matter where you learned the wrong teachings; what truly counts is your willingness to submit to God’s will as your heavenly Father. What matters is how you choose to align yourself with Him and nurture a strong relationship with Him! And you let others know what is right and wrong. God bless you more! 🙌