The Fail-Proof Marriage Ingredient

This article reveals a fail-proof marriage ingredient that has been tested and proven. The marriage ingredient, which works superbly, can be seen in the scripture below.

And Boaz answered and said unto her, It hath fully been shewed me, all that thou hast done unto thy mother-in-law since the death of thine husband: and how thou hast left thy father and thy mother, and the land of thy nativity, and art come unto a people which thou knewest not heretofore. (Ruth 2:11 KJV)

In today’s Bible verse, Boaz acknowledges his knowledge of Ruth’s selflessness that brought her to Judah, where they met and married. After losing her husband, Ruth selflessly accompanies her mother-in-law, Naomi, to a foreign land. This act of kindness, which led her to marry Boaz, a man of great wealth, is an inspiring example of a meek and quiet spirit in action.

What is a Meek and Quiet Spirit?

The Greek word for meek is “praus,” which means the act of not being occupied with self. Meekness, which stems from trust in God’s goodness and control over situations, is the opposite of self-assertiveness and self-control. In a layperson’s language, to be meek means to be selfless. The Greek word for “quiet” is “hesychios,” which means to be still and peaceful. So, a meek and quiet person means a selfless and calm person.

Applying a Meek and Quiet Spirit to Marriage

Did you know people see you as lovely if you exercise a meek and quiet spirit? Exercising such a spirit is indeed of great value. That is in line with what Peter wrote in his first epistle, where he described a meek and quiet spirit as an ornament of great value in the sight of God (1 Peter 3:4).

When men say they are searching for a good woman to marry, they unknowingly seek a lady with a meek and quiet spirit. That explains why Abraham’s servant used it as a criterion when choosing a spouse for Isaac.
He searched for a lady who would selflessly give him water to drink and volunteer to fetch water for his camels (Genesis 24:14). This was a significant task requiring physical strength and a selfless spirit.

Just as Rebekah’s selflessness led her to marry Isaac and Ruth’s led her to marry Boaz, your selflessness can pave the way for a successful marriage. Selflessness is a marriage quality that never fails. Whether you are a man or woman, single or married, I encourage you to develop a meek and quiet spirit. Doing so will enhance your relationships and bring about marital bliss. May you excel in your relationships, guided by the spirit of meekness and quietness, in Jesus’ name.

Prayer Point

Father, I ask for the grace to develop a meek and quiet spirit in Jesus’ name.

Further Study

1 Peter 3:1-4

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10 Comments
  • Ayomide
    August 11, 2024

    “When men say they are searching for a good woman to marry, they unknowingly seek a lady with a meek and quiet spirit”.
    Abba Father I ask for more Grace of meek and Quiet spirit in my marriage Amen🙏

  • Esther
    August 11, 2024

    Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏

  • Divine
    August 11, 2024

    Amen.

    This is a great message.

    Dear Abba Father, I ask for the grace to develop a meek and quiet spirit in Jesus’ name.

  • Dashik Simon Jacob
    August 11, 2024

    Meekness provide one an opportunity of greater influence to success

  • Edith Akwawa
    August 11, 2024

    Guided by a meek and quiet spirit I excel in my relationship

  • Nnamdi Beauty
    August 11, 2024

    “Meekness, which stems from trust in God’s goodness and control over situations, is the opposite of self-assertiveness and self-control.”

    This part of the teaching shows that self-centered people don’t trust in God’s goodness in their lives and circumstances .

    This makes them put so much effort trying to make things work by all means, even if they have to hurt others.

  • Caroline
    August 11, 2024

    I will succeed in my relationship by the grace of God Amen

  • Caroline
    August 11, 2024

    This aspect of the devotional regarding the choice of spouse which the servant prayed for, for his master Abraham
    He looked for a selfless woman to give him water and tend to his camels (Genesis 24:14). and he got what he prayed and requested for.

    When you cultivate a humble and peaceful attitude to fulfill relationships you will have a blissful marriage.

    Be encouraged for a marriage relationship to succeed the couple must keep working on their relationships continually

  • Helen
    August 12, 2024

    Great insights. The aspect of this study resonates with me is that a meek and quiet spirit is an ornament of great value in God’s sight. Meek and quiet Spirit is a great attribute of the Holy Spirit every Christian should desire. It is a force that propels us to selfless service towards others. Asking God that this Spirit shall be activated in my life to help s always serve selflessly.

  • Esther
    August 16, 2024

    Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏.